Quickies: Brief sexual encounters are great fun when you’re pressed for time. Morning heavy petting can make the whole day more exciting.
Sneaky sex: Whispery sex behind locked doors while the children (or grandchildren) are watching TV is great fun, or sneak lovemaking in your childhood bedroom while visiting your parents.
Romantic sex: Pull out all the stops: candlelight, dinner, dancing, dressing up, perhaps a lovely hotel room or a romantic dinner for two at home. It’s great for celebrations, or anytime you need a boost.
Newlywed sex: Recreate your first married days — the time you met your man at the door wearing only a negligee, surprise flowers or silly, wildly in love things you said then.
Make-up sex: After an argument or a struggle, lovemaking can be extra tender and memorable.
Comforting sex: When one of you is sad or stressed, the other can be especially tender and soothing.
Relaxing sex: Lay around, have breakfast in bed, and make love for as long as you want; no pressure, no hurry and no demands on each other.
Reassuring sex: Tender affection reassures a partner who is temporarily insecure, and reaffirms your mutual love and commitment. Declare your love and remember how important it is.
Fantasy sex: Act out all the silly, forbidden or exciting fantasies: Nurse and patient (or doctor), Cop and criminal, famous movie star and adoring fan, or your two favorite characters from a TV show (Ross and Rachel, Penny and Leonard). If you feel a little silly, that’s ok… laughter will only make it more fun.